Thread:Blacklion65/@comment-25939848-20141229214807/@comment-29643412-20150111193810

Light, haven't you noticed that constantly (and I do mean constantly) messaging the same guy every single waking day with the general message of "Please come onto the chat, please talk to me" just sends two messages?


 * 1. You are a stalker that doesn't even have the common sense to at least keep from annoying the same guy with the same message over and over all day


 * 2. And it does the opposite of what you want: it makes the receiver (Lion in this case) more and more unlikely to go onto the chat. When it starts becoming busy work, the average individual will instinctively want to do it less because it has stopped being fun for them.

Doing this sort of thing once in a while, like say you have something important to talk to them about, then that's okay, and doing it in a short row, like 2 or 3, one after the other is pushing it, but still fine. But the constant message of "get on the chat" just gets annoying after the first 500 times. And see, that statement would be a lame joke over-exaggerating the amount of times you send the constant flow of "get on chat NAO"...

If it didn't actually happen

And that's the sad part for everyone, seeing how dedicated you are to send this flow of the same but different electronic information over half of a thousand times. And by same but different, I mean same meaning, different phrasing. You gain nothing new from repeating yourself, except for the fact that the person/receiver is aware of the fact that you've sent basically the same concept, the same meaning, the same everything, once again for their notification box to chime and let them know another message from you has come.

Out of all the messages on this thread, only eight don't belong to you. Doesn't that depress you, knowing that you're taking all of the air time while people (including me) try to make you see that this isn't good nor healthy to do? But you know, it's your choice to do this, so I'll leave you be. But before I leave you, I have one other thing to say. I forgot one of the other hidden messages you send to people.


 * 3. You have no regard for where they are at the moment, like you think that they're on their computer, surfing all throughout the internet without a care in the world while they ignore you and your attempts to get their attention. Lion may be elsewhere, doing something else in his daily life, or maybe having fun, you don't know, but you have to at least be aware that they won't be there to respond to you everytime you try to get their attention, either because they're somewhere else, or maybe even sleeping.

So I'll leave you be for now.